Slo Mo: A Podcast with Mo Gawdat

Francesca Specter - How to Thrive When You’re Alone and the Power of Solitude

July 18, 2021 Mo Gawdat and Francesca Specter Episode 144
Slo Mo: A Podcast with Mo Gawdat
Francesca Specter - How to Thrive When You’re Alone and the Power of Solitude
Show Notes

Today’s guest is the wonderful Francesca Specter. She is the internationally published author of Alonement: How to be Alone and Absolutely Own It, and the creator of the Alonement podcast.

Alonement is an uplifting and celebratory guide to embracing being alone and understanding why it’s very different from being lonely. It’s been described by journalist Daisy Buchanan as a ‘joyous invitation to make your own declaration of independence’.

Francesca is also a freelance journalist, writing long-form lifestyle features for the Telegraph, the Guardian, Red, and Grazia.

Listen as we discuss:

  • What is lifestyle journalism?
  • What is the difference between lonely and being alone?
  • Why Extroverts need to learn the skill of being alone.
  • Alone time is one the best catalysts for great ideas.
  • Starting from inside and using the outside world to complement your experience.
  • How Francesca decided to confront her biggest fear after a serious breakup.
  • Your relationships benefit when you spend time alone.
  • Do you need to give up relationships to reach enlightenment?
  • Couples should be able to have a conversation about wanting alone time.
  • The power of long walks.
  • Not apologizing for being “just one” at a restaurant or cafe.
  • Francesca’s top tips for having a positive experience alone.


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Connect with Francesca Specter on Instagram @chezspecter, Twitter @chezspecter, and her website, alonement.com

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